It has been quite sometime rather a long time since I wrote my last blog and the break has been good. I call it good because if feels great to know that my blogs were missed by people. It was great to know that I had followers across the world. Isn’t it something for a writer? It is, at least for me, making a difference to unknown and unseen people through words is a big thing in a small way. Many asked me why I stopped writing. While I always wanted to write everyday, I kind of got very busy with my work, was putting long hours at office and by the time I got back home, I was damn tired and I just wished somebody would carry me from my sofa to my bed. Writing needs you to be in a good frame of mind, right topic, right environment, right people around you, everything has to be right…right…right. Wow, this is the most amazing bullshit story I used to convince myself and others for me not writing on my blogs regularly. But the reality is “I was lazy and chose to watch movies than write something useful”.
We need to start believing ourselves that we can do more than we think we can. The problem is the need to do something and it is not skill or will, most of the time we have the skill to do things, lot of times, the will to do things as well but what we lack is the determination to do things we wanted to do. We should change the way we think. Don’t think “we can do it” rather think “we should do it”. First is an option but the latter is a compulsion. We need to choose to win not participate and convince ourselves. First step towards that is to stop giving excuses. Think of your excuses stopping your results and start doing things and take responsibility. Why not start learning guitar, taking short films, write a page, read a book, learn a skill, making a difference for a needy. All needs doing not excuses. Follow your dream, we can start today and make a difference tomorrow. we have nothing to lose but to gain one way or the other. Let’s not be the “choice” but the “chooser”. Happy changing.